Men are put off of sex because they feel insecure and because they worry about losing their freedom within a relationship. The University of Kentucky study found that unlike women, men often lose interest in sex when they are unhappy or insecure.

What causes a guy to lose interest in you?

When men lose interest, it is often because they feel too much pressure. So to add even more pressure is not a good idea. Even if you want to know where you stand at that moment, give him some space to make a choice. This way you will increase the chance that he will eventually choose you.

How do you ask a guy if hes not interested anymore?

You can broach the subject indirectly or directly. You can ask him, “Are you still interested in hanging out together, or would you rather just be friends?” This gets to the heart of the issue and gives him the opportunity to share what he is feeling.