You dont have to tell everyone you date that you have cancer. Cancer might be a big part of your life, but it doesnt define who you are. However, you should tell those with whom you are developing serious, possibly permanent relationships.

How do you announce you have cancer?

Telling people about the cancerDuring the first conversation, introduce the subject gradually. Tell them in the way that feels best for you. Ask what they already know. Give the information in small chunks. Do not worry about silences. Say what you need to say. Be truthful. Think about which issues are most important to you.More items

What should you not tell a cancer patient?

Dont say “I know how you feel” because you cant possibly know. Better to ask, “Do you want to talk about how you feel, how having cancer is affecting you?” Dont offer information about unproven treatments or referrals to doctors with questionable credentials.

How do I tell my adult child I have cancer?

It is important to talk about cancer with your adult children, even if they get upset or worry about you. Include them when talking about your treatment. Let them know your thoughts and wishes. They should be prepared in case you dont recover from your cancer.

Do I have to tell my family I have cancer?

You are not obligated to tell everyone you know. It might be helpful to make a list of people you want to talk to in person. Then you can make another list of friends and acquaintances and have a friend or family member reach out to them with the news. If you are employed, think about who to tell at your work.