Without wishing to sound like a broken record, there is no definitive answer. Some people will consider themselves to be officially in a relationship after a handful of dates. Others might want to wait until ten or more dates have happened before committing.

How many dates do you need to go on?

Three dates is a good rule of thumb. If youre not feeling any sense of chemistry or attachment, its OK to give up. If you want to keep trying, go for it, but make sure to be careful of his feelings too.