Between outbreaks, its OK to have sex, as long as your partner understands and accepts the risk that they may contract herpes. For example, as long as you dont have herpes sores on your mouth, you can perform oral sex on your partner, including when you have an outbreak of genital symptoms.

Can I have herpes and not infect my partner?

Yes. Even when no sores are present, the herpes virus is still active in the body and can spread to others. If you or your partner has herpes, reduce the risk of spread by: using a condom every time you have sex (vaginal, oral, or anal).

What are the chances of getting herpes from an infected partner?

Yes! According to a 2010 study conducted by Emily T. Martin and others, there is a high risk of herpes transmission during protected sex when one of the partners is herpes-positive. The probability reaches 50% to 70%.

What are the chances of spreading herpes without an outbreak?

But it is still possible to spread the infection even when no ulcers are present. One study examined rates of genital herpes transmission in heterosexual couples when only one partner was initially infected [1]. Over one year, the virus was transmitted to the other partner in 10 percent of couples.

Can you cuddle with someone who has herpes?

This includes kissing, oral sex and contact with the genitals or anus. You cant catch genital herpes by sharing cups, towels or from toilet seats. You can still share a bed, kiss or cuddle your partner and not risk infecting them with herpes.

Can a single blister be herpes?

The blisters are usually in clusters, but you might have just one blister. You might have a fever, muscle aches, and sore lymph nodes in the groin area. Herpes sores can cause vaginal discharge in women. You also might have trouble urinating.