On average, couples wait about six years before they seek counseling, she says. Thats a lot of time to do a lot of damage. The more couples can be proactive, the more they can minimize unnecessary damage and protect and nurture relationships to keep the romance, passion and friendship alive.

Does Couples Therapy get worse before it gets better?

It can get worse before it gets better Marriage counseling puts your relationship in the lime light and it can feel like its getting worse before you eventually solve your problems and rebuild your trust in each other. So hang in there!

Will my therapist tell me to leave my husband?

Many clients are nervous that when they finally do meet with their therapist, they will be met with some kind of fate about the relationship and that they will possibly hear something they dont want to. So, will we tell you to stay in a relationship or leave it? The answer is no.

How do I convince my partner to go to therapy?

The Therapy Talk: 8 Ways to Convince Your Spouse to Go to Couples CounselingBe Honest About Your Struggles. Dont Play the Blame Game. Let Them Know You Love Them. Move Past the Stigma. Dont Get Defensive When They Get Defensive. Be Clear With Your Motives. Set Clear Goals. Choose A Counselor Together.More items •May 6, 2019