Men take an average of 88 days (about three months) to tell their partner they love them, whereas women take an average of 134 days (four and a half months), according to a 2013 survey conducted by YouGov and eHarmony.
How long should you be in a relationship before you do it?
The two month rule. While of course its different for everyone, according to relationship psychologist and data analyst Claire Stott, 2 months is an optimum amount of time for the average couple to date before they start a relationship.
What to do when a man stops chasing you?
The best thing to do is to talk to him. Try to understand his perspective and see why he stopped chasing you. Communicate with him and tell him you like him too! If hes still into you, youll be able to rekindle the flame.