Many married women (and married men) insist that having a best friend of the opposite sex is perfectly healthy. First, healthy friendship involves emotional intimacy, as well it should. Deep friendship leads to a level of sharing that is selective and usually confidential.

Is it OK to have friends of the opposite gender while married?

Yes, opposite sex friendships can be healthy for you and encouraging of your marriage if you and your spouse will take some steps to ensure that they meet the standards that you have established.

Is it normal for your wife to have guy friends?

Many married women (and married men) insist that having a best friend of the opposite sex is perfectly healthy. When a woman shares intimate feelings with a man who isnt her husband, a wedge forms between her and her husband. He is excluded from the privacy she shares with her male best friend.

What counts as cheating in a marriage?

Two things count: any alienation of affection without the partners consent and spending money without the partners consent. So, if you are spending emotional time with someone, particularly at the expense of quality time with your partner and your partner is upset about it, then youre probably cheating.