On the flipside, you need to know youre wasting your time if he flat-out tells you he doesnt want anything serious or isnt ready for a relationship. LISTEN TO WHAT HES SAYING. Dont cling onto the hope that “maybe” hell change his mind, he just has to “realise what he has with you.” No, no, no, no, no.

How do you know if someone is a waste of time?

5 Signs Someone is Wasting Your Time. The common red flags you should not ignore. They dont want to commit. Its been a year, and there are still no talks of commitment. They dont know what they want. Who knows. They are a narcissist. Deep down, you know you can do better. They are never there when you need them.

Can a one-sided relationship work?

One-sided relationships can develop when you and your partner have different ideas about what the relationship means. This certainly isnt a healthy relationship behavior — its not your job (or anyone elses) to take care of them. However, this pattern can change through improved communication and dedicated effort.