Should you date someone with herpes Reddit?

No. Even if you are exposed to someone with herpes, you can have an outbreak months or years later once youre with someone you like a lot. Its not worth the risk. They can give you herpes even if they dont have sores.

What if you both have herpes?

If both are infected with the same virus type, there is then no concern about passing the virus on. People are resistant to new infections with the HSV type they already have, so couples dont ping-pong the infection back and forth.