How do I stop being a nice person?
How to stop being so niceStop looking for your worth outside of yourself. Be aware of the thoughts leading to your people-pleasing. Imaging yourself saying standing up for yourself. Remember - Youre not responsible for others feelings. Take a risk.Jul 5, 2020
Why do good guys finish last?
Simply put, nice guys finish last because they are scared to be themselves and may not even know themselves at all. They are unsure of what it means to stand up to you or fight with you.
Why being nice is bad?
People take you for granted – they abuse your generosity and niceness. You feel guilty about telling people that they hurt/ wronged you, and as such, you keep it bottled inside. Bottled feelings can build up to the detrimental of your health.