One of the more obvious rules of the online dating game is not to send a message immediately after you match. Give it 2-3 hours before you send a message, that way you dont seem too eager and you give yourself an air of mystery!

Should you message as soon as you match on Bumble?

Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then. Its also okay to wait a few hours or days if youre genuinely tied up.

What happens when a guy doesnt respond in 24 hours on Bumble?

If he doesnt respond within a day, bye, bye, potential partner. Bumble wants to make it an even keel experience, says Wolfe. She was held to 24 hours to reach out to you. We feel its only fair youre confined to the same rules.