Low confidence — One of the most common reasons why people lose interest is because the person theyre dating lacks confidence. Confidence counts for a lot. Consider a person — and we all know at least one — who is physically unattractive, yet has many dating options.

Why did I lose interest in him?

In some cases, your sudden loss of interest in your partner could be the result of your discovering you both have different values or goals. When you feel this way, you may want to talk to your partner about it and think about whether or not you still want to stay in a relationship with them.

Why do I lose interest when someone is interested in me?

It conjures feelings of admiration, intrigue, and praise. Weve become comfortable thinking that love and attraction is about being in awe of someone. That exact behavior is the same reason we lose interest in people who show too much interest in us. It makes us feel like were getting something worth our efforts.

How do you know if a guy is losing feelings for you?

You feel like he has started to slack off recently when it comes to your relationship. He is rarely making any plans to hang out or take you out to nice dates. He puts in no effort, just the bare minimum. Maybe he only replies when you text or call him and never initiates a conversation himself.