A romantic relationship with someone with BPD can be, in a word, stormy. Its not uncommon to experience a great deal of turmoil and dysfunction. However, people with BPD can be exceptionally caring, compassionate, and affectionate. In fact, some people find this level of devotion from a partner pleasant.

How do you know if youre dating a borderline?

Signs and SymptomsIntense fear of rejection, separation, or abandonment.Rapid changes between thinking someone is perfect to believing they are evil.Risky behaviors including unsafe sex, gambling, drug use, or accumulating credit card debt.Threats of suicide or self-harm.Difficulty empathizing with other people.More items •Nov 24, 2020