4. Withholding and Neglect: Narcissists withhold love and affection (or even money, sex, and communication) to get what they want. And since theyre so focused on their own feelings and needs, theyre neglectful of others.

How do narcissists withhold love to control their partners?

Some of the most popular ways narcissists use withholding include stonewalling (the shutting down of conversations before theyve even begun), the silent treatment, a sudden withdrawal of affection and physical intimacy without reason, and unexplained disappearances where they refuse to contact you or engage with you

Do narcissists struggle with intimacy?

Narcissists fear any true intimacy or vulnerability because theyre afraid youll see their imperfections and judge or reject them. No amount of reassurance seems to make a difference, because narcissists deeply hate and reject their own shameful imperfections.

Are narcissists capable of affection?

Narcissistic personality disorder (narcissism) is a psychiatric disorder characterized by a pattern of self-importance (grandiosity), a constant need for admiration and attention, and a lack of empathy for others. Because of this lack of empathy, a narcissist cannot really love you.

What happens when a narcissist does not get attention?

But people with NPD may react with narcissistic rage when they arent given the attention that they feel they deserve. This rage may take the form of screaming and yelling. Selective silence and passive-aggressive avoidance can also happen with narcissistic rage.