They show empathy — in good times and bad “Someone in love will care about your feelings and your well-being,” Dr. Flores said. “If he or she is able to show empathy or is upset when you are, not only do they have your back, but they also probably have strong feelings for you.”

How do you know you are in love with someone?

How can you recognize romantic love? Loving someone romantically usually involves a desire for a many-faceted connection. You value their personality and want their friendship. You might lust after them a little (though you can experience romantic love without ever desiring a physical relationship).

How long does it take to know youre in love?

Case in point: An 2018 survey of 1,000 British men and women found that while more than half of them take over three months to say, I love you, 32% of women and 29% of men say it in one to three months—and 10% of women and 14% of men say it in just one to four weeks.